Being Happy doesn't mean everything's perfect.
It means you've decided to see beyond the imperfections...

Tuesday, January 1, 2008

Happy new year to all of ya.... Its a great feeling of having a new life, having a great time... Changing paths, views and ideas. If some of you had really tough situations (any kind) and u want to change. Why not? Things dont change, only we change. If am wrong, then just think about it.
This is not the case for these labours. When i gave them a new year wishes, their face were still the same as before. For them, its just another day of work. Some of them actually forgot or dont know that its the new year.
All of them miss their families. For them, a new year, or the other occasions lies in their hometown. Happiness lies in their heart of families...They left their family and evrything..... Just to support them...As soon as they get salaries, they send it to thier families as soon as possible and spend very little for themselves.And because of this, they have become thin and weak..
They actually looked entirely different from what they originally were before (before leaving india). They work like anything, under the sorching sun and sometimes doesnt eat food because it costs them. They just drink water to fulfill their thirst and hunger.Yet they never complained about their work and their hard times.
When i asked them... To eat more and ask for the raise.. They wud say ' no problem, as long as my family are happy... I live' I was stunned by their reply. How true they said. They live and earn by happiness, inspite of their tough times.
And look at us, we have everything and we ask for more.... And we are somehow not happy...If u are like that, for eg, tough times, more workload, more studies, no time and all , then imagine these labours...
If u r with ur family, then be happy for you are with them.... Bcos not all r lucky.
If u r working away from ur family, then be happy for u r serving ur family.... Which they will be happy and ultimately makes u happy. Moreover u have friends to spend time or share feelings...
If no friends and away from family, then orkut is the solution for u.
Yes, of course, do change if the organisation doesnt pay u well or follow the rules. I know it wud be difficult to leave as it has to be simple, straight & diplomatic. But be clear and straight forward. Get the things sorted out.
I am not promoting happiness nor i am in some volunteering club. I dont follow spirituality either....I just said the practical things and the facts of life. Which i called this as Factuality... In short, reality...
And the fact is that, some people do it for their happiness & some for sake of other's happiness... Which ultimately leads to one point..... Happiness...

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